spazzdog
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I am not a parent, but I have cared for many a child over the years - siblings, babysitting, live-in nanny, then just helping out friends by sitting with young ones so they could have "a date night" when they couldn't necessarily afford a sitter.
The thing I noticed was the change in how kids are raised... And how involved the public felt they had a right to tell you how to raise a kid. First it was no more paddling or standing in corners (or any type "punishment") in schools. Then you couldn't spank your child, especially not in public. I'm not talking beating a kid... I'm talking about the one or two swats on a backside. Do that in public and you get a visit from child services.
Then it was reason with them from birth, tell them they were winners no matter what, give everyone a trophy and schedule every minute of every day with some "activity" so they will have lots on their school transcripts when they finally go to college.
It's scary the generation we, the boomers and after are creating. I know I didn't express this right... I hope it makes some sense...
The thing I noticed was the change in how kids are raised... And how involved the public felt they had a right to tell you how to raise a kid. First it was no more paddling or standing in corners (or any type "punishment") in schools. Then you couldn't spank your child, especially not in public. I'm not talking beating a kid... I'm talking about the one or two swats on a backside. Do that in public and you get a visit from child services.
Then it was reason with them from birth, tell them they were winners no matter what, give everyone a trophy and schedule every minute of every day with some "activity" so they will have lots on their school transcripts when they finally go to college.
It's scary the generation we, the boomers and after are creating. I know I didn't express this right... I hope it makes some sense...