92Esquire
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My wife and I played a local muni in the afternoon yesterday. I've been excited (and honestly a bit nervous) about this all week. While we consider this our "home" course, I've struggled with the front 9. The last time I playd there was about a month and a half ago. I was walking it by myself. I started off with a bad drive on the first tee that actually hit a car in the parking lot (wicked, wicked slice). By the time I teed off on 9, I was down to the last two balls in my bag. I lost one on the over-water approach and just walked off the course.
I've been playing now a bit over a year. I try to keep score and play as the rules indicate. I don't give myself mulligans, I try to play the ball where it lies (unless doing so is going to cause severe damage to a club). Without talking pure scores here (I'm already depressed, no need to put a number on it), last fall I was hitting the ball inconsistently. My common miss was topping the ball, and kicking it forward about 25 yards. I've practiced like crazy and now I'm making good contact much more frequently. I'm much longer now than I was last fall (about 2 clubs longer), although I don't feel like I'm swinging harder. The problem is my score has increased. Probably about 2 strokes a hole.
My problem is with direction. My woods go right, my irons go left. That is, unless I compensate for it. Then they go straight as an arrow, and I'm left in another pickle. What killed me yesterday was driving and chipping. I lost a full dozen balls (E6+'s. Not as painful as a dozen Pro V1's, but it still hurts). I lost three on one hole. It got bad enough that I ditched the scorecard after the 9th, but I still knew how badly it was going.
I understand that golf is supposed to be frustrating, but how do I get past this? I really enjoy playing with my wife, but I'm putting in serious time out of my life that I could be doing something else and I'm going backwards in a big hurry. I know that I will never be a tour player (or be able to play in a club championship), but if I can't figure out a way to at least feel a bit competent, I don't know how much longer I can keep doing this. I really enjoy spending time with my wife, and I want to golf with her. However, I need to at least feel like I'm doing "OK". Carding 10's on a par 4 regularly isn't helping.
I've got a lesson Monday. I've taken a number of lessons, and I can always seem to get straight with an instructor watching me. At this point, I don't even know what to tell the guy I need help with, other than a simple "I suck".
Sorry for the pity party. This typically isn't like me. However, I've been self-competitive my entire life (being a swimmer does that to you). I don't want world class performance, only competence. Should I be praying for a breakthrough, or is this just going to continue to suck for a long time?
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I've been playing now a bit over a year. I try to keep score and play as the rules indicate. I don't give myself mulligans, I try to play the ball where it lies (unless doing so is going to cause severe damage to a club). Without talking pure scores here (I'm already depressed, no need to put a number on it), last fall I was hitting the ball inconsistently. My common miss was topping the ball, and kicking it forward about 25 yards. I've practiced like crazy and now I'm making good contact much more frequently. I'm much longer now than I was last fall (about 2 clubs longer), although I don't feel like I'm swinging harder. The problem is my score has increased. Probably about 2 strokes a hole.
My problem is with direction. My woods go right, my irons go left. That is, unless I compensate for it. Then they go straight as an arrow, and I'm left in another pickle. What killed me yesterday was driving and chipping. I lost a full dozen balls (E6+'s. Not as painful as a dozen Pro V1's, but it still hurts). I lost three on one hole. It got bad enough that I ditched the scorecard after the 9th, but I still knew how badly it was going.
I understand that golf is supposed to be frustrating, but how do I get past this? I really enjoy playing with my wife, but I'm putting in serious time out of my life that I could be doing something else and I'm going backwards in a big hurry. I know that I will never be a tour player (or be able to play in a club championship), but if I can't figure out a way to at least feel a bit competent, I don't know how much longer I can keep doing this. I really enjoy spending time with my wife, and I want to golf with her. However, I need to at least feel like I'm doing "OK". Carding 10's on a par 4 regularly isn't helping.
I've got a lesson Monday. I've taken a number of lessons, and I can always seem to get straight with an instructor watching me. At this point, I don't even know what to tell the guy I need help with, other than a simple "I suck".
Sorry for the pity party. This typically isn't like me. However, I've been self-competitive my entire life (being a swimmer does that to you). I don't want world class performance, only competence. Should I be praying for a breakthrough, or is this just going to continue to suck for a long time?
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