So Josh and I were watching a (fairly lame) show profiling student athletes yesterday. They did a segment on a young skater, and her mom or coach or someone said "she's a true competitor" and how she loves practicing her sport, always tries to improve, etc etc. A few people said that about her, she's "such a competitor."
Then a friend said about her, "even if she doesn't skate well or win anything, she's just happy to be there and performing."
We started talking about it...I always kind of believed that being a fierce competitor and just being happy to show up were two different things, and mutually exclusive. Both approaches have their merits, but can you be on both ends of the spectrum at the same time?
Tiger Woods is a fierce competitor, often (always?) competing against himself more than anyone else. Sure, I'm sure he enjoys playing, but in a tourney he's there to do his best, and seems to come down on himself before anyone else for mistakes. While some would give their eye teeth to take a top ten in a tourney, for Tiger, he seems to always want better.
Other golfers just seem happy to be there, and put on a good show. While winning might be nice, they maybe don't have the competitive drive to constantly critique themselves.
My golf partner curses himself if his ball ends a little left. In comparison, I hit a short drive, and say, "hey, at least it went straight!" (One of us is consistently better than the other, but one of us is more fun to golf with.)
So if you're just happy to be there, see the fans, enjoy the nice weather, whatever, do you really have a chance to win? And not a fluke win, but to be A WINNER, and dominate your sport?
Can you really become a fine golfer if you don't have a competitive drive?
Then a friend said about her, "even if she doesn't skate well or win anything, she's just happy to be there and performing."
We started talking about it...I always kind of believed that being a fierce competitor and just being happy to show up were two different things, and mutually exclusive. Both approaches have their merits, but can you be on both ends of the spectrum at the same time?
Tiger Woods is a fierce competitor, often (always?) competing against himself more than anyone else. Sure, I'm sure he enjoys playing, but in a tourney he's there to do his best, and seems to come down on himself before anyone else for mistakes. While some would give their eye teeth to take a top ten in a tourney, for Tiger, he seems to always want better.
Other golfers just seem happy to be there, and put on a good show. While winning might be nice, they maybe don't have the competitive drive to constantly critique themselves.
My golf partner curses himself if his ball ends a little left. In comparison, I hit a short drive, and say, "hey, at least it went straight!" (One of us is consistently better than the other, but one of us is more fun to golf with.)
So if you're just happy to be there, see the fans, enjoy the nice weather, whatever, do you really have a chance to win? And not a fluke win, but to be A WINNER, and dominate your sport?
Can you really become a fine golfer if you don't have a competitive drive?